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Judy Freeman

April 22, 1944 -

March 28, 2003

 

 

 

Words cannot express the emptiness I feel when I reflect upon the fact that my dear sweet mom is gone.  There is a saying "you don't know what you have until it is gone" and in the death of my mom that applies to me.  My mom loved her children with all her heart and always showed love and would try her hardest to comfort the best way she knew how.  Sometimes I would be sad and she would end the phone call telling me to "chirp chirp" meaning "cheer up cheer up"......I would call her and she would be there with a soft, gentle reassuring voice that always understood and would try to pass on wisdom from all that she had been through in her life....She loved animals especially elephants and her favorite dog that she named "Puppy" and of course as my sister Erin said she loved her coffee.
My mom was a very diligent hard working person who had overcome many things in her life, her life was far too short in all the good that she gave to this world...she is dearly missed... 

Death can be a very abrupt thing to deal with and it is hard because it the finality of it, but everything has its place and time.  I believe my mom is at peace....I only have felt that I should have appreciated her more and this poem made me cry after she died because it is so true.......it seems to be written for a child but....it still stirs conviction to appreciate life and the time we have here on Earth with our loved ones.

~Carrie~

   

No Regrets about Today

If I knew it would be the last time
That I'd see you fall asleep,
I would tuck you in more tightly
and pray the Lord, your soul to keep.

If I knew it would be the last time
that I'd see you walk out the door,
I would give you a hug and kiss
and call you back for just one more.

If I knew it would be the last time
I'd hear your voice lifted up in praise,
I would video tape each action and word,
so I could play them back day after day.

If I knew it would be the last time,
I could spare an extra minute
to stop and say "I love you,"
instead of assuming you would know it.

If I knew it would be the last time
I would be there to share your day.
Well I'm sure you'll have so many more,
so I can let just this one slip away.

For surely there's always tomorrow
to make up for an oversight,
and we always get a second chance
to make everything just right.

There will always be another day to say "I love you."
And certainly there's another chance
to say "Anything I can do?"

But just in case I might be wrong,
and today is all I get,
I'd like to say how much I love you
and I hope we never forget.

Tomorrow is not promised to anyone,
young or old alike.
And today may be the last chance
you get to hold your loved one tight.

So if you're waiting for tomorrow,
why not do it today?
For if tomorrow never comes,
you'll surely regret the day,

That you didn't take that extra time
for a smile, a hug, or a kiss
and you were too busy to grant someone,
what turned out to be their one last wish.

So hold your loved ones close today,
and whisper in their ear,
Tell them how much you love them
and that you'll always hold them dear.

Take time to say "I'm sorry,"
"Please forgive me," "Thank you," or "It's okay."
And if tomorrow never comes,
you'll have no regrets about today.

 

 



 

 

 

 


 

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